SexWithStrangers: Yeah, okay.
Don’t have unprotected sex. Cause you could get an STI. If you happen to get pregnant, there are options (assuming that where you live is not insane).
Yup, pretty much. I have the mind of a teenager.
Good on ya! Keep it up!
Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic?
“In Russia… infidelity is considered a pleasurable vice, like smoking cigarettes. In Finland, sex in general is viewed as a very positive experience, so when a person is presented with the possibility of a sexual experience, it’s in some ways socially sanctioned to pursue it…”
Oh CNN. Y’all are crazy, but sometimes I love ya.
I also want to say that I do make guys work to get me. I’m not always such an easy catch. But every now and then it is nice to skip all the games and verbal foreplay and just get right into sex. Plus there are times when I’ve led a guy on for two months and when we finally did hook up, he was really boring in bed. So sometimes it’s best to know right away if you two click in bed. If the sex isn’t good, move on. If you aren’t happy from the beginning, you most likely aren’t going to be 6 months later.
This has been a public service announcement brought to you by Addison.
★===== The more you know….
The only reason you should “make guys work” to get you, is because people don’t value that which comes easy. They value something (and someone) that they need to work for more than they would value something given to them. The games people play in social settings can be fun, but if they’re not fun, skip them and get to the part that’s always fun.
As a polyamorous man, one of the things that has always confused me about human beings is our need to maintain strict rules on our sexuality. “When you are in a relationship, you shouldn’t see other people,” or “When you are married, you forsake all others,” or “Seeing someone else while you’re already committed is ‘cheating’ on your current partner.”
I say “Fuck that. Go have sex with strangers.”
And that’s what this blog is going to be about. Having sex with people you don’t already know, or having sex with people you do know, but you’ve never had sex with, or having sex with people you used to have sex with, but hardly know anymore. I’ll post some pretty pictures, write some articles, start a few fights. It’ll be good.